Why Do Some Guys Have the "Gift of Gab"?
Posted: Wednesday, October 28, 2009
by Vin Dicarlo
Let's face it. You and I are weird guys.
Well maybe weird isn't the right word...
Sure, other people might call us weird, but I'd say we are EXCEPTIONAL.
First of all, it takes a certain kind of man to admit that he can improve with women.
Most guys are mentally lazy. They'd rather play video games and looking at hot images, and then hope to get lucky on Saturday night.
Most guys meet women through their social circle. Even some of the most awkward guys I've ever met had a few "options."
Which actually annoyed me, because I can remember a LONG period in my life where I was a) HOT URGES, and b) A total loser with women I was clueless when it came to women.
I swear, I would've done ANYTHING to change this.
But at some point I realized I had no other choice but to pull up my bootstraps and BUST MY BUTT to figure this out.
And you know what? It's a damn good thing I did, for two reasons.
The first reason is obvious...MY LIFE BEGAN TO CHANGE IMMEDIATELY.
And as an outcome, I got good enough to give what I've learned from other men, and make a living out of it.
I'm actually one of the VERY FEW professional "pickup coaches" out there who does this full time.
Most of the other guys do this part time, as a way of "supplementing their income."
And as they all squabble and compete with each other, they'll all tell you there's one guy they won't mess with - yours truly.
That's because not only do I treat other guys with respect, even if I disagree with their methods...
It's also because I'm true in dealing. (Maybe they're scared I'll hook their girlfriends! Haha just kidding guys) You know, it's true that women respond to CERTAIN TOPICS.
There's are many well-respected pickup guru out there who made a list of women-friendly topics. It's good stuff!
The thing is, there are really two kinds of topics when it comes to women: good and bad.
Good = fun, funny, personal, introspective, silly, random, deep, etc.
Bad = anything negative and dry (logical).
But this looks easier than it sounds. You see, people are wired in a weird way. It's really easy for us to complain and talk about stuff we DON'T LIKE.
And as men, we are naturally very logical. We like FACTS.
But there is a small, TINY percentage of MEN WHO KNOW HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN.
These are the guys that effortless chit chat with HOT WOMEN, and get them laughing and touching them with ease.
And like me when I was younger, you watch...baffled, jealous...and as you see the breasts of these women jiggle and bounce as their lips spread and let out their melodious feminine laughter...you have a strange mix of anger and horniness.
It's not fair.
Most guys who have the "gift of gab" with women had POWERFUL, AFFIRMING EXPERIENCES with women when they were young.
You know these guys - remember in 6th grade, there was the one kid who all the girls thought was soooo cute.
I'm sure you can remember a guy from every grade who fits this description. If it wasn't the same kid every year (for me it was).
It's a shame that most guys give up control over something so important.
They talk about "getting laid" as "getting lucky," and dating as "one day I'll meet the right woman."
You deserve the women you want. And your genes deserve to be passed on with the best possibility of survival. That's what evolution is all about.
Therefore, you deserve to be with the women your really want.
This is YOUR LIFE.
All you need to do is get the conversation thing handled!
It's really not that hard once you know what to pay attention to. If you're reading this, I know you're not lazy.
You've probably bought tons of books and programs on how to be better with women, or how to be better at LIFE.
A lot of our stuff falls flat when it comes to dating knowledge. That's because it hasn't been field-tested.
We are passionate about what we do. We LIVE IT. We give our students the very same stuff WE USE.
I know you have a full tank of gas, ready to make your journey. That's why you're reading this.
All you gotta do is STEP ON IT.
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
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