Vin Dicarlo
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Why Do Girls Avoid You?
There are two ways to pre-empt any potential flake outs. (Flake-outs, or "flaking," if you're new to my stuff, means that you got a woman's phone number, but she's either not calling you back, or being difficult about going on a date with you.) The first way to minimize the chances of a woman flaking on you is by having a GREAT first interaction. If there's chemistry, odds are, she will be very motivated to answer the... (posted by Vin 2 years 120 days ago.)
There are two ways to pre-empt any potential flake outs. (Flake-outs, or "flaking," if you're new to my stuff, means that you got a woman's phone number, but she's either not calling you back, or being difficult about going on a date with you.) The first way to minimize the chances of a woman flaking on you is by having a GREAT first interaction. If there's chemistry, odds are, she will be very motivated to answer the... (posted by Vin 2 years 120 days ago.)
How to Get a Girlfriend
Does being introverted block your success with women? I've got to admit, I'm not the most outgoing guy in the world. And for a long time it held me back. Most of the men that come to me for training are in similar way - it's kind of an unspoken thing that guys studying pickup all share. Guys who are naturally outgoing and social naturally meet a lot of women and typically have decent dating lives. It's actually quite rare that a... (posted by Vin 2 years 200 days ago.)
Does being introverted block your success with women? I've got to admit, I'm not the most outgoing guy in the world. And for a long time it held me back. Most of the men that come to me for training are in similar way - it's kind of an unspoken thing that guys studying pickup all share. Guys who are naturally outgoing and social naturally meet a lot of women and typically have decent dating lives. It's actually quite rare that a... (posted by Vin 2 years 200 days ago.)
Mystery's The Pick Up Artist
Mystery's the Pick Up Artist aired on VH1 a few weeks ago. I caught a recent episode and wanted to share with you guys my predictions. What I liked: 1. Mystery's Ridiculous Outifits. No one can peacock like mystery, hands down. And the shows budget really allows for some fancy stuff. I dig it. Peacocking that hard is actually quite a challenge. Don't believe me? Go to your local lair and look at all the guys who try it... (posted by Vin 4 years 150 days ago.)
Mystery's the Pick Up Artist aired on VH1 a few weeks ago. I caught a recent episode and wanted to share with you guys my predictions. What I liked: 1. Mystery's Ridiculous Outifits. No one can peacock like mystery, hands down. And the shows budget really allows for some fancy stuff. I dig it. Peacocking that hard is actually quite a challenge. Don't believe me? Go to your local lair and look at all the guys who try it... (posted by Vin 4 years 150 days ago.)
Pick Up Artist Techniques
Sometimes the first thing guys want to do when they meet a girl is show her that they understand GAME. They'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how girls will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know girls like intimacy more than guys etc. From now on, I will refer to this nonsense as "The Talk of Death". Let me explain why, and also give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead. The... (posted by Vin 4 years 167 days ago.)
Sometimes the first thing guys want to do when they meet a girl is show her that they understand GAME. They'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how girls will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know girls like intimacy more than guys etc. From now on, I will refer to this nonsense as "The Talk of Death". Let me explain why, and also give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead. The... (posted by Vin 4 years 167 days ago.)
Mystery the Pick-Up Artist uses Storytelling on VH1
The next story telling technique is very powerful and ties back into displaying your personality and bringing your characters to life. This technique is adding TOUCH to your stories. This really helps paint the picture and get your audience more involved. An example of this would be like "My friend and I were walking over there like this... (lock arm in arm)." Only hold whatever touch you are displaying... (posted by Vin 4 years 180 days ago.)
The next story telling technique is very powerful and ties back into displaying your personality and bringing your characters to life. This technique is adding TOUCH to your stories. This really helps paint the picture and get your audience more involved. An example of this would be like "My friend and I were walking over there like this... (lock arm in arm)." Only hold whatever touch you are displaying... (posted by Vin 4 years 180 days ago.)
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